You know how everyone hopes to settle overseas, particularly in the united states, where they believe their lives will finally be "set"? However, that goal has become a never-ending cycle of waiting, hoping, and enduring painful separations for a great number of indians on H1B visas. For years, you have been a resident of the united states, paying taxes, establishing a life, giving back to the community, and feeling somewhat at home here. The catch, though? Every few years, the visa application procedure determines whether you may stay, go to see your family, or have to pack up and leave everything behind. And it can hit you hard at times.

I heard of someone who had been in the united states for about 15 years, and they still had to go through the same process every time they needed to renew their visa. Every travel back to india is a gamble, regardless of how much they have given or how many years they have worked. One of their greatest heartaches occurred in december of last year. They were unable to return with their family after the death of their uncle, who had been their dad's longtime friend. Is it possible? When your family is grieving halfway over the world and you are stuck in a different country, you are unable to even clasp their hands and share their grief.
 
We are aware of the secrecy surrounding mental health in our society, but it is completely different for H1B holders. Many indians on H1B suffer from depression, anxiety, or just plain stress, but many are afraid to ask for treatment, according to another individual. Why? Because of the persistent concern that a mental illness may jeopardize their prospects of obtaining a green card. No one truly knows how it may impact things, yet the forms ask.
 
As a result, many continue to suppress their feelings and consider the years of anxiety, uncertainty about staying, concerns about job security, and silence regarding the psychological toll it's taking. They are similar to "forever immigrants" in that they pay taxes and make contributions to the united states, but they are unable to vote or have any voice, and they are always asking themselves, "Am I even wanted here?" It's really unfair and tiresome.
 
Making the decision to return to india might occasionally feel like a relief. After years of residing in the united states and even obtaining approval for their I-140, a crucial step in the green card application process, one family made the decision to pack up and depart. However, they came to the conclusion that it wasn't worth it because of the interminable delays, the restriction on their ability to travel, and the burden of constantly having "temporary" status. They even considered going to Canada, but ultimately chose to return home. They remarked, "I miss the weather in california sometimes, but that's about it." Imagine being able to live your life without that cloud hanging over you and not having to worry about visa renewals.
 
These tales serve as a reminder that immigration laws affect people's lives and aren't only about paperwork. Returning to india does not mean that these "forever immigrants" would give up on their aspirations. It's about taking back a life people can truly lead, free from the constraints of interminable waiting and uncertainty. Therefore, don't be shocked the next time you hear of someone returning to india after giving up their H1B. They are just choosing a life where they are free to be with their loved ones, feel settled, and enjoy life to the fullest; they are not settling for anything less.
 
 
 
 
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G GOWTHAM

02/11/2024 09:17 AM