Why bitterness grows in relationships?
There was a time when the relationship used to become stronger through any medium of writing letters or sending messages, but today technology has gone so far that many other mediums of sending messages have come but the relationship is equally complicated. With the changing times, the process of messaging has increased the distance and tension in the relationship.
Due to not meeting face to face and talking through messages, misunderstandings have started increasing and many of these relationships also become the reason for breaking up. When we talked to the psychologist about this, he gave many reasons behind it. Let us know those reasons as well as understand some of the ways how to make the relationship stronger.
The biggest problem in the message is that we do not understand in what sense the messager is writing, what is his mood. We see the words and we react.. so misunderstandings grow.
The face is not visible, only the message is received
Due to not seeing the face, many times wrong assumptions are made for the front. While reading the message, we do not see the face of the other person. Along with the ups and downs of words, the expression of the face is also very important. When we talk face to face, we see what the person is angry about, what is happy about it, maybe we have made him angry but the reason for the displeasure in the message is not understood and we avoid saying sorry.
It is not easy to resolve disputes in messages
It is easy to resolve any dispute when we are in front of someone, but no matter how many things we write in the message, there is no solution. You can't prove yourself right, your time is wasted. Just the debate of proving right and wrong continues.
There is an irritant when the reply of the message is late
Sometimes we get irritated and angry even when the message is answered. We start creating bad thoughts on the contrary.
Feeling of love is less in the message
There is a lot of benefit of talking face to face, if someone is angry with you or there is any misunderstanding, then at least we can ease the mind by hugging him from the front, without increasing the talk too much, we can end everything with a hug.
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