The grief-stricken words of the wife of pahalgam martyr Shubham Dwivedi have struck a deep chord across the nation. Her anguish is not just personal, but symbolic of a larger sentiment of neglect felt by the families of those who made the ultimate sacrifice. In the wake of the tragic attack in pahalgam that claimed the lives of 26 security personnel, her disappointment over prime minister Narendra Modi’s silence during a two-hour-long speech resonates with many who expected acknowledgment, empathy, and reassurance from the country’s highest leadership. For the families of the fallen, such silence is not merely an oversight—it feels like a dismissal of their pain and a refusal to honor the sacrifices made.

This omission is being seen by critics and common citizens alike as a stark failure in leadership sensitivity. When a nation loses its brave soldiers, the least expected from the leader of the country is a tribute, a moment of remembrance, or even a few words of solace. Instead, by completely ignoring the tragedy in such a significant address, Modi has drawn ire not only from opposition leaders but also from ordinary indians who see this as a political prioritization over human empathy. The martyr’s widow’s statement lays bare this emotional disconnect, turning the spotlight on what many see as a pattern of selective acknowledgment.

Tragically, instead of collective introspection or calls for accountability, there is now a looming fear that the martyr's widow will become the target of online trolling by aggressive supporters of the ruling party. In recent years, it has become all too common for anyone who questions or criticizes the government—even if they are grieving families of martyrs—to be subjected to vitriolic abuse on social media. This toxic environment not only suppresses legitimate voices of dissent but also erodes the moral fabric of a democratic society. In this instance, the dignity of a soldier’s sacrifice and his family’s pain should be above politics, and any harassment against them would be a disgrace to the values the fallen jawans died defending.

Find out more: