instagram feminism looks glamorous when posted by women with million-dollar bank balances, luxury homes, and zero household struggles. They chant “Marriage is a burden, sleeping around is freedom, chores are slavery”—while sipping lattes in their AC living rooms. But here’s the ugly reality: you’re not them.
You’re priya from a tier-3 town in UP, doing a BA degree with little to no job prospects, while your parents break their backs to pay bills. You don’t have a trust fund, designer handbags, or a PR team to spin your mistakes into “empowerment.”
This isn’t about crushing dreams—it’s about saving lives from instagram delusions. Because one wrong mindset can destroy your entire future.
1. Rich Feminists Don’t Live Your Life
They have maids, cars, and chefs. You’ll have unpaid electricity bills, leaking taps, and the burden of survival. Stop idolizing them.
2. They Can Afford “Sleeping Around.” You Can’t.
When they date 10 men, their families still marry them off rich. When you try it, society will brand you for life. Different worlds. Different rules.
3. marriage Isn’t Slavery, It’s Stability
To them, marriage is “chains.” To you, marriage could be the only safety net against lifelong unemployment. Don’t throw it away because someone in mumbai posted “marriage is outdated.”
4. Cooking & Chores = Power, Not Weakness
Knowing how to run a home is survival. You can’t UberEats every night in a small town. Life skills > woke hashtags.
5. Don’t Expect Dad to Pay Forever
Your father is not an ATM machine. If you don’t learn to take responsibility—either by working or being a good homemaker—you’ll collapse when reality hits.
6. Be a Feminist With a Paycheck, Not Just a Hashtag
Want to fight patriarchy? Fine. But do it with your own job, your own money, and your own independence. Without that, you’re just rebelling on borrowed WiFi.
7. The Harsh Truth: Modesty Will Save You
While influencers get clout for flaunting their “wild phase,” you’ll get lifelong shame in your community. Pick wisely.
Killer Outro:
Influencers sell you dreams they’ll never live themselves. They cash in on your rebellion while sitting safe in their privilege.
You? You’ll pay the price.
So, if you’re from a small town, forget Insta-feminism. Learn real skills, embrace responsibility, and choose wisely—because survival > slogans.
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