Do not impose anything on children... Instead, Discover their talents....
Do not force anything on children, they do not like it first. Nowadays kids are not like the children of 20years back period, now they think a lot, they are very smart to question back, they want to do what they like. parents used to raise children saying that you should become a doctor and an engineer. But that is not the case today. The reason is that children do not want to impose anything on themselves. This is the time when many people have started to speak boldly that I will come according to what talent I have. So the right parenting is to encourage parents to change themselves over time and discover their children's talents and go down that path.
Kindergarten-speaking children - Do not impose your desire on the minds of children. Some parents think from an early age that they can make her/his boy who is not interested to become a doctor, but they will force the child to study a lot to see her/his son as a doctor. They are the fresh flowers on the earth. Every child has some unique talents just like every flower has a scent. parents should not impose their desires on children without promoting those skills. Let the children grow up as children first. Don’t do it and don’t do this Don’t destroy childishness from children by saying you have to be like this.
Let's draw on the wall - Is your child trying to paint at home. Encourage the child and send them to drawing/painting class. Enable them to participate in painting competitions. The best parenting tool is to support the child's success. All parents think that their child's future should be good. It is not wrong at all but don't ever try to turn your desires into the desires of children.
Dad’s dream - If a child thinks that he is unable to fulfill his father's dream, then the child decides to commit suicide because of depression. If you force your child to grow up as I thought he would, children will suffer from depression at an early age. If your kids are interested in sports then look at the beauty of being an athlete. Everyone in this world loves a white-collar job. Let them be a scientist with their discoveries that come well in science and look beautiful. Some will have the option of becoming entrepreneurs. parents can provide advice. If you look at the last page of your child's note it will have some tweaks and letters on it. It’s not just tweaks but an expression of what they want. Let your children grow up to be children. Help them, be with them and guide them to make their dreams come true.
