When any religious leader, scholar, or figure in a position of moral authority promotes teachings that dehumanize or strip individuals—especially women—of their autonomy, it goes against not only ethical values but also the foundational human rights that protect dignity and equality. The claim that a wife has "no right" to refuse intimacy is a dangerous and regressive idea that ignores consent, bodily autonomy, and the very basis of mutual respect in a relationship. marriage is not a contract of ownership; it is a partnership built on trust, communication, and shared values.

What’s even more horrifying is the idea of teaching men how to “punish” or “hit” their wives. This not only promotes domestic violence but legitimizes abuse under the guise of religious instruction. Regardless of theological interpretation, violence and coercion have no place in any faith that claims to be rooted in compassion, mercy, and justice. When an imam—or any religious authority—crosses the line from guidance to abuse, they harm the very community they are meant to uplift and protect. These views are not just morally reprehensible; they are socially destructive and legally punishable in many parts of the world, including the United States.
It’s crucial to understand that such interpretations are not representative of islam as a whole. The vast majority of Muslim scholars and communities reject violence and promote equality, mutual respect, and compassion in marriage. Misogynistic teachings must be confronted and condemned, not only to protect women but to preserve the integrity of religious and ethical values. Community leaders, human rights organizations, and legal authorities must work together to ensure that no one can hide behind religious rhetoric to justify abuse.

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